Here is a video that documents and shows some of the symptoms and details about Provocation/Neutralization treatment, the treatment we do for Kaylee to correct her "allergies" to chemicals, foods, molds, and other allergens. I cannot stress enough how much this has changed our lives. Kaylee is happier and feels better because of this treatment instantly .
Showing posts with label behavior. Show all posts
Showing posts with label behavior. Show all posts
Monday, January 11, 2010
Thursday, April 2, 2009
Update
Things have been like a roller coaster around here. Kaylee's behavior is up and down. We will have lots of bad days and a few good ones peppered in here and there, and I am pretty sure its due to her allergy/intolerance issues.
Recently, Kaylee had her Diflucan removed and she got better for a few days and then things got bad again. Then we remove something else and so it goes, its a cycle and just when I think it ends, something else comes up and her behavior gets bad again. Right now I have removed chicken from her diet and its working! But I am not holding my breath because another problem will probably arise. And so it goes with allergies...
Oh April 23 can't come fast enough! I shouldn't be placing all of my hope on one doctor (Dr. Oberg, who is a specialist in allergies and immunology), but the nurse at the NY clinic seems to know this is the key for Kaylee. However, I still place my trust in God, who is the God of knowledge. I know He knows exactly what Kaylee needs.
Right now Kaylee is still on Valtrex and Benadryl daily. She still has dark circles under her poor little eyes. She still has a very limited diet. She still breaks out into hives from certain foods. Here behavior is so difficult to deal with when we have a "bad day". She acts like a kid who is sick, over-emotional, angry, and tired all rolled up into one. Most of our days are "bad days". I would say we have a good day every ten days. This is very hard on me and the kids, too. I pray this ends soon!
On the bright side, Kaylee is really progressing cognitively and socially. She answers questions very well, can follow directions, and initiates play with other children. She especially likes older boys which I need to watch out for...
Recently, Kaylee had her Diflucan removed and she got better for a few days and then things got bad again. Then we remove something else and so it goes, its a cycle and just when I think it ends, something else comes up and her behavior gets bad again. Right now I have removed chicken from her diet and its working! But I am not holding my breath because another problem will probably arise. And so it goes with allergies...
Oh April 23 can't come fast enough! I shouldn't be placing all of my hope on one doctor (Dr. Oberg, who is a specialist in allergies and immunology), but the nurse at the NY clinic seems to know this is the key for Kaylee. However, I still place my trust in God, who is the God of knowledge. I know He knows exactly what Kaylee needs.
Right now Kaylee is still on Valtrex and Benadryl daily. She still has dark circles under her poor little eyes. She still has a very limited diet. She still breaks out into hives from certain foods. Here behavior is so difficult to deal with when we have a "bad day". She acts like a kid who is sick, over-emotional, angry, and tired all rolled up into one. Most of our days are "bad days". I would say we have a good day every ten days. This is very hard on me and the kids, too. I pray this ends soon!
On the bright side, Kaylee is really progressing cognitively and socially. She answers questions very well, can follow directions, and initiates play with other children. She especially likes older boys which I need to watch out for...
Wednesday, December 31, 2008
Update for 12/30
Hope ya'll had a Merry and Happy Christmas, we made it, some highs and lows...
Here's a picture of me and my girls, I am happy because at least 2 out of 3 are smiling!!!
For an update, Kaylee has been on Lexapro for a over a week and a half now, and Singulair for 2 and a half weeks, and I have some mixed reviews.
Singulair has taken care of her allergies now. No more night coughing and runny nose. That's good.
Now for the Lexapro, Kaylee is talking more, singing less (her singing was either stimming or boredom?) She is doing better about paying attention, answering questions, she is talking more and now she is less echolalic and actually learning from the Teach2Talk DVDs I bought her that teach her about her pronouns. I practice throughout the day "you" and "me", "his" and "hers" and more, and she is catching on but not all of the time. She is appropriately using "she" and "you" and "my" right now.
The cutest thing she has started doing is addressing people "Come on Momma, let's go..." and now she has decided to boss her little brother around at times like a any big sister should saying "Joey, no!".
It's difficult for me not to get discouraged, because her habits of speaking in the wrong way are ingrained. Kaylee seems to be used to thinking in a way that takes longer to learn. It is as if she speaks language visually and then converts it to an auditory language. Like Temple Grandin calls it: "thinking in pictures".
Something else has emerged in Kaylee, too. I am not sure if she is pretending or scripting, Kaylee is playing with her toys, but she repeats how she is taught to play with things. An example: "Hey, let's go for a ride" with her Little People in cars, but she's missing the creativity we see in most children.
It is overwhelming to think about how many things Kaylee has to learn, when I see Joey learning so easily, just by being exposed to things. How can I possibly teach her everything she needs to know, on top of what else she needs to learn?
On the bad side, Kaylee has been misbehaving like never before. She acts like a girl who needs a nap, but she can't take one. When we sit down to eat she can't sit still, she never used to be that way, all squirmy and wiggly. Yet she lays on the ground tired and sucking her fingers like she's tired.
During Kaylee's bad times, she leaves her momma in tears! She breaks down and gets very upset. She is uncooperative and defiant, and I get scared because I don't know how to handle it sometimes. I just try to stay calm and not back down. She's eatin' those green beans, darn it!
I had finally had it, so I called Dr. Russell's office this morning and to my chagrin, he answered the phone! He told me to stop the Lexapro for a week and rule out the Singulair as the problem.
Sigh, I was looking forward to the Lexapro since before we went to NY, because I knew that was the golden ticket, what really helps the kids. Guess it's more waiting for now...
Singulair has taken care of her allergies now. No more night coughing and runny nose. That's good.
Now for the Lexapro, Kaylee is talking more, singing less (her singing was either stimming or boredom?) She is doing better about paying attention, answering questions, she is talking more and now she is less echolalic and actually learning from the Teach2Talk DVDs I bought her that teach her about her pronouns. I practice throughout the day "you" and "me", "his" and "hers" and more, and she is catching on but not all of the time. She is appropriately using "she" and "you" and "my" right now.
The cutest thing she has started doing is addressing people "Come on Momma, let's go..." and now she has decided to boss her little brother around at times like a any big sister should saying "Joey, no!".
It's difficult for me not to get discouraged, because her habits of speaking in the wrong way are ingrained. Kaylee seems to be used to thinking in a way that takes longer to learn. It is as if she speaks language visually and then converts it to an auditory language. Like Temple Grandin calls it: "thinking in pictures".
Something else has emerged in Kaylee, too. I am not sure if she is pretending or scripting, Kaylee is playing with her toys, but she repeats how she is taught to play with things. An example: "Hey, let's go for a ride" with her Little People in cars, but she's missing the creativity we see in most children.
It is overwhelming to think about how many things Kaylee has to learn, when I see Joey learning so easily, just by being exposed to things. How can I possibly teach her everything she needs to know, on top of what else she needs to learn?
On the bad side, Kaylee has been misbehaving like never before. She acts like a girl who needs a nap, but she can't take one. When we sit down to eat she can't sit still, she never used to be that way, all squirmy and wiggly. Yet she lays on the ground tired and sucking her fingers like she's tired.
During Kaylee's bad times, she leaves her momma in tears! She breaks down and gets very upset. She is uncooperative and defiant, and I get scared because I don't know how to handle it sometimes. I just try to stay calm and not back down. She's eatin' those green beans, darn it!
I had finally had it, so I called Dr. Russell's office this morning and to my chagrin, he answered the phone! He told me to stop the Lexapro for a week and rule out the Singulair as the problem.
Sigh, I was looking forward to the Lexapro since before we went to NY, because I knew that was the golden ticket, what really helps the kids. Guess it's more waiting for now...
Thursday, December 18, 2008
Terrible twos or autism?
Recently, I posted that Kaylee was having trouble with tantrums and transitioning, and I attributed it to her having autism. She says "no" when she means "yes" and goes back and forth and can't make a decision. She cries and protests when she can't have her way. She fights for her rights when someone takes her toys.
For many months, Kaylee was in her own world, unable to move forward in her social and cognitive development. Although she was growing physically (even that is arguable, before we adjusted her diet she was very thin and underweight, but today she is in the normal range for her weight) Kaylee was not growing socially, emotionally, and cognitively. Most days all she did was "stim" by chewing on her toys, spin in circles, eat her books, or line up her toys. If someone walked in the room, she never noticed. She really tried to avoid people, especially children.
Now I am going to digress a bit and give you some background, if you are interested. I have a friend in my area who has a son was diagnosed with autism and is the same age and close to the same level of development as Kaylee. She is the one who told me about NIDS and her son has been doing the NIDS Protocol a bit longer than Kaylee and he is responding well. But my friend was discouraged because of all of the behavioral problems she was experiencing with her son, all problems similar to mine with Kaylee.
She spoke with Dr. Russell this week about these issues and he told her to read up on typical 2 year old behavior. He explained that even though our kids are clearer, they missed time while they were stuck in their own world, and they still need to go through those developmental stages. He suggested that many of the problems we were experiencing were behavioral in nature and not greatly related to autism. One clue was that the tantrums weren't the typical autistic "meltdowns" that last a loooong time.
We officially lost Kaylee around 13 months of age, but I suspect she has been slowly getting better for a while now, especially when we changed her diet. Now that she is coming out of her own world, it is as if she is starting where she left off. Kaylee is 3 and a half years old, but she seems like she is just above my son developmentally, who is 21 months old. When I looked up "typical 2 year old behavior" on the Internet, it was like I was reading about Kaylee's struggles. Not being able to make decisions, short tantrums when she doesn't get her way, etc.
Kaylee still struggles with auditory processing, like understanding what people are saying, and echoing things she doesn't understand sometimes. But when she was evaluated we were told that she had the processing of a 2 year old. This seems to support the theory because she has the processing of a 2 year old, she is acting like a child who is 2 years old. It makes sense to me now! Looks like we may be going through the dreaded terrible twos a bit late.
This didn't occur to be a possibility to me before, because Kaylee is my first born and I am not really experienced in child development. And there's nothing like living with it, no education can replace real time experience. I had no idea what was to be expected.
All of this time I have been expecting Kaylee to be exactly where her peers were and sinking into a depression when I compared her to other typical children her age.
The truth is, Kaylee is stimming 95% less than she used to and she wants to play with other children, that's groundbreaking in my eyes! I am very encouraged and now I realize I was mistaken in thinking that Kaylee was going to be totally typical after biomedical intervention. I have had unrealistic expectations... This is going to take time for Kaylee to get better and learn how to act and communicate.
Soon I hope to have good updates concerning Kaylee since we will be giving her the Lexapro this week.
Take care and stay warm!
Jennie
For many months, Kaylee was in her own world, unable to move forward in her social and cognitive development. Although she was growing physically (even that is arguable, before we adjusted her diet she was very thin and underweight, but today she is in the normal range for her weight) Kaylee was not growing socially, emotionally, and cognitively. Most days all she did was "stim" by chewing on her toys, spin in circles, eat her books, or line up her toys. If someone walked in the room, she never noticed. She really tried to avoid people, especially children.
Now I am going to digress a bit and give you some background, if you are interested. I have a friend in my area who has a son was diagnosed with autism and is the same age and close to the same level of development as Kaylee. She is the one who told me about NIDS and her son has been doing the NIDS Protocol a bit longer than Kaylee and he is responding well. But my friend was discouraged because of all of the behavioral problems she was experiencing with her son, all problems similar to mine with Kaylee.
She spoke with Dr. Russell this week about these issues and he told her to read up on typical 2 year old behavior. He explained that even though our kids are clearer, they missed time while they were stuck in their own world, and they still need to go through those developmental stages. He suggested that many of the problems we were experiencing were behavioral in nature and not greatly related to autism. One clue was that the tantrums weren't the typical autistic "meltdowns" that last a loooong time.
We officially lost Kaylee around 13 months of age, but I suspect she has been slowly getting better for a while now, especially when we changed her diet. Now that she is coming out of her own world, it is as if she is starting where she left off. Kaylee is 3 and a half years old, but she seems like she is just above my son developmentally, who is 21 months old. When I looked up "typical 2 year old behavior" on the Internet, it was like I was reading about Kaylee's struggles. Not being able to make decisions, short tantrums when she doesn't get her way, etc.
Kaylee still struggles with auditory processing, like understanding what people are saying, and echoing things she doesn't understand sometimes. But when she was evaluated we were told that she had the processing of a 2 year old. This seems to support the theory because she has the processing of a 2 year old, she is acting like a child who is 2 years old. It makes sense to me now! Looks like we may be going through the dreaded terrible twos a bit late.
This didn't occur to be a possibility to me before, because Kaylee is my first born and I am not really experienced in child development. And there's nothing like living with it, no education can replace real time experience. I had no idea what was to be expected.
All of this time I have been expecting Kaylee to be exactly where her peers were and sinking into a depression when I compared her to other typical children her age.
The truth is, Kaylee is stimming 95% less than she used to and she wants to play with other children, that's groundbreaking in my eyes! I am very encouraged and now I realize I was mistaken in thinking that Kaylee was going to be totally typical after biomedical intervention. I have had unrealistic expectations... This is going to take time for Kaylee to get better and learn how to act and communicate.
Soon I hope to have good updates concerning Kaylee since we will be giving her the Lexapro this week.
Take care and stay warm!
Jennie
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